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Joel_W
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Posted: Friday, April 17, 2020 - 01:00 AM UTC
Just needed to share this with my online family.

Yesterday, my 96 year old mother n law who I loved dearly, passed away at the nursing home she's been at for some time. She did develop respiratory systems and a fever, but was never tested for the virus. No one at that home has been tested, and there have been a few other deaths as well, but this is how the virus acts.

We made arrangements yesterday for her to be buried with my father in law at Calverton National Cemetery, but there's a very long waiting list.

While it hasn't been easy watching the last of our parents pass, each has died of a different disease, and each has suffered as the end came. May she finally rest in peace.

Thanks for letting me share our personal sorrow with you.

Joel
JPTRR
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Posted: Friday, April 17, 2020 - 01:25 AM UTC
Joel,

So very sorry for your loss.

Sincerely,

Fred
Joel_W
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Posted: Friday, April 17, 2020 - 01:45 AM UTC
Thank you Fred, we really appreciate it.

Joel
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Posted: Friday, April 17, 2020 - 01:57 AM UTC
My deepest sympathies go out to you and your family. May God give you the peace that you seek Joel.
Andy
Joel_W
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Posted: Friday, April 17, 2020 - 02:19 AM UTC
Thank you Andy for those thoughtful words.

Joel
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Posted: Friday, April 17, 2020 - 04:16 AM UTC
Joel, I am very sorry for your loss. God be with you and your family.
Dixon66
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Posted: Friday, April 17, 2020 - 04:30 AM UTC
Joel, my wife and I send our sincere condolences to you and your family.
Klaus-Adler
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Posted: Friday, April 17, 2020 - 06:12 AM UTC
you have our deepest sympathy from this side of the pond.

Klaus
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Posted: Friday, April 17, 2020 - 07:29 AM UTC
Hi Joel

I was so saddened to read your news. My deepest sympathies and condolences go out to you and Lyn, along with the rest of your family.

Take care and keep safe

Rowan
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Posted: Friday, April 17, 2020 - 07:36 AM UTC
Joel, while still consider myself an outsider, compared to many participants in this website I am sorry for your lose. No matter who the family member is it is still a great loss especially if they are a close member. Again sorry for for loss and sympathies to you and the rest of your family.
wing_nut
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Posted: Friday, April 17, 2020 - 08:11 AM UTC
So sorry fr your loss Joel. I'll raise a glass to you and yours tonight. Remember the happy times.
Joel_W
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Posted: Friday, April 17, 2020 - 09:24 AM UTC
Thank you all my friends. It means a great deal to me that you've taken the time to post your concerns and Sympathies.

And Darrell, you're one of us now, not an outsider by any means.

Joel
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Posted: Friday, April 17, 2020 - 09:35 AM UTC
Joel, my condolences. My parents are gone, my FIL went years ago. Just the mil left and I know that's gonna happen and crush my wife. It hurts, I still think of questions to ask my parents 8 years after they're gone.
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Posted: Friday, April 17, 2020 - 10:09 AM UTC
Joel, I am sorry for your loss. Take care during these trying times.

Jim
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Posted: Friday, April 17, 2020 - 10:23 AM UTC
Joel, commiserations, my good friend! I know how it feels - I lost both of mine! I know that doesn't matter the age and expectations, there is never good news and one can never really fully get over it I'm having a knot in my throat right now and the screen it went blurry. Take care of yourself, my old man!
😢
Gabriel
AussieReg
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Posted: Friday, April 17, 2020 - 11:19 AM UTC
Joel, I am so sorry to hear this sad news, your family has my deepest sympathy and condolences.

D
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Posted: Friday, April 17, 2020 - 11:59 AM UTC
Joel - I am so very sorry to hear of your loss . I hope that you and your family can find some happiness in the days ahead . These are trying times but they won’t last forever. Chin up buddy - Richard
Stickframe
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Posted: Friday, April 17, 2020 - 02:23 PM UTC
Hi Joel,

I'm saddened to hear the news of you loss. My condolence to you and your family.

Best regards,

Nick
Joel_W
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Posted: Saturday, April 18, 2020 - 01:20 AM UTC
To all that continue to post their condolences and wishes. I can't tell you how much your responses means to me. We're coping as best we can under these trying circumstances. Mom is the last of our parents to pass, so by now we know what needs to be done, and honestly, for the last year we've been preparing for this day on all personal fronts.

What we weren't prepared for is her passing during the Pandemic. They locked down the Nursing home before she got sick, so we never got to see her and say good bye. Our local funeral home that we've used before was able to handle her remains, as there's no funeral bruials at this time. Her wishes has always been to be buried with her husband whose at Calverton National Cemetary, and the wait once they start is weeks to months.

Even the cause of death became an issue. Last night at 8pm the county coroner's office called to ask questions about her passing. The Nursing home listed nothing, there was no tests ever done for the virus, etc. We explained the events and they said that they would list it as Natural Causes. So I guess we'll never know for sure.

Again, thank you all so much. I'll always remember you kindness and concerns.

Joel
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Posted: Saturday, April 18, 2020 - 03:02 AM UTC
Joel, please take my deppest condolences to you and your family, especially to your wife loosing her mum. Read it in your mail from Thursday. 96 is a blessed age and I hope she had a good life. May she rest in peace.

Torsten
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Posted: Sunday, April 19, 2020 - 12:18 PM UTC
Joel,

My sympathy to you and your family at this time. Take care.

David
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Posted: Sunday, April 19, 2020 - 01:58 PM UTC
Joel

My family's deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Stephen
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Posted: Monday, April 20, 2020 - 04:57 PM UTC
My deepest sympathies, Joel.
Joel_W
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Posted: Tuesday, April 21, 2020 - 01:54 AM UTC
Thanks to all that still offer their respects and condolences. I can assure you that each one is of comfort to me.

Joel
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Posted: Wednesday, April 22, 2020 - 04:35 AM UTC
My deepest condolences Joel. Regardless, of age, it's never easy to loose someone.
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